Reality is not like that and to be honest reality shows like Love Island and like you say Influencer lifestyle has played into that for them to make it look possibly
Girls under 30 tend to want the boujie influencer life. The aesthetic is there, insta in profile, exotic locations, tall buildings at night with a glass of champagne in their hand. OK love but who’s gonna bankroll that?
Girls 35-45 tend to be a bit more mature, their kids may be older, that’s great, I don’t want to adopt anyone’s babies.
They’ve lived life they’ve experienced things they don’t want it all on a silver platter. As sorry (and this might not go down well on a student forum but it’s TRUE.
Tinder is a no
Just the thing is with online dating these still attractive (sorry but there has to be an element of physical attraction) older women aren’t there. Or I’m looking in the wrong places.
I kind of relate, from a hetero female perception though. I tried OKcupid at some point and experienced quite similar things . from the other side of the coin tho
Apps/Online dating are literally the worst place for a guy to look, you’ve summed it up pretty well from a guy’s perspective I found the exact same thing.
So many female profiles on Tinder, etc done in a fancy hotel like room, stately home room or like you say the tall building nightly backdrop with a glass of champagne in her hand or a Chanel bag (or knock off version) on her. I’m pretty definite that they are all set ups done just for what lifestyle she wants to be kept in and not how she really is pure dating app download. It’s just something about them where you can just tell that. The whole thing is just ridiculous it’s like the girl setting up a false dream reality of herself and hoping the guy will be rich enough for it to come true lol.
It really is the worst thing ever that a girl can do it’s like putting the finger up to 99 percent of men on there and saying she only wants a rich guy that can ‘afford’ her. Most of the time she’s massively overdone the slap so you can’t really even tell how she really looks anyway you just get a phoney looking modelish girl pic, fake tan, fake eyelashes, hair in a non-natural semi curl, tons of slap, etc.
They will then end up going with he gym rat guy and being used for sex or some guy who is making our he is rich and being used for sex. It’s easy for the latter to bait a girl into sex as he just hangs out what she wants by making it look like he is rich. Dumb girl then falls for it seeing only what she wants to see the glitter of gold in front of her eyes. Most guys know you only have to be wealthy enough to put on a bit of ‘a show’ drop in a few hints that you are wealthy and the girl is there.
This circus act has been going on too long now by both men and women. Those men get the sex they are after, the women b*tch about the results but then continue doing the same thing hoping it will come good at some point. It’s literally like they are buying into their little girl fantasy dream/Hollywood romance tale and that dating apps are the place that can deliver on this. It just ludicrous, it’s like they think the dating apps are asking them for their dream reality and it will make it come true for them with a tap of a magic wand.
The reality is that few people in the UK are ‘really rich’ if they are lucky they might meet someone who is mildly comfortably off and that ount of work and they may be aging a bit. The few guys that are really rich particularly young run mile from those women as they know what they are like and they want someone who truly cares about them or won’t bother dating at all. If anything they will likely go for girls who are already wealthy also as it gets away from all of that.
Main issue that not only these girls that use the dating apps out of the serious guts they also aren’t looking for those guys who would be serious and don’t want them. They are hoping that the gym rat or rich guy will be a serious guy lol, good luck with that one! In the meantime they end up bobbing up and down on the c*ck carousel hoping each time the guy will hold onto them, they never do. Then they get to the age of around 40 get past their sell by date and the ride stops. They are left in their own and end up in a bad way wondering whether to have a kid alone (poor kid) like a post we had in here the other day.
Dating in reality is the only way, we meet each other as we are as people can usually only keep up pretense for so long. Unfortunately women just aren’t interested in meeting the everyday looking but serious guy these days in reality or online, they only want their idealised Mr Wonderful Moneybags lol.
